When Robin and I arrived home from our last “just us” trip, Andrew was having “quiet time” and Noah was sleeping. When Andrew was done with his quiet time, he came out of his room and started to head downstairs. When he got to the bottom landing, he was smiling, giddy and excited. He leaped down the stairs into Robin's waiting arms. He shed a few tears of happiness while Robin held him. Mommy (and Daddy too) came home. Noah woke right about that same time and he walked slowly down the stairs. Robin scooped him up too. Andrew let go of Mommy after a couple of minutes. It took Noah almost an hour before he wanted to go down from Mommy’s arms. We were home....
On Friday June 30, just after noontime, Robin and I got in the car and headed north for a getaway. We returned on the 4th of July. My Mom and Dad came down to our house and stayed with the boys during our getaway. Karin came down for a couple of nights to help out with the boys over the weekend. My Dad said, “It was really nice having Karin here; it's easier when it is 3 on 2.” Really?!? Despite the pure truth of that statement, we are not planning on hiring someone anytime soon. We wish.
We stayed one night in Solvang (Danish for sunny field) and four nights in Shell Beach, just north of Pismo Beach. We spent the time in the heart of the Central Coast of California. It was a great trip. It does not take much for relaxation to set in when you leave the daily life of watching over step and fetch-it. I do not think there is a better feeling than getting home and knowing you were missed. I think even Nana and Grampster missed us - or at least were glad we came home to relieve them of duty.
During our trip, we bought
mood rings. While the colors changed slightly during the trip, it was usually from "Relaxed" to "Calm." It only took a day or two upon our return for us to discover new moods like "Fear," "Anxious," "Stressed," and "Nervous." Fortunately, during our respite, we were in the Central Coast of Relaxation.
Our drive up on Friday was miserable, which is good because we got the misery out of the way early. Robin wasn't feeling great - which is the only time I really drive. Let’s just say that I am not as “focused” when driving as Robin is. So I drove, for 7 hours in massive traffic on Friday afternoon, from San Diego up to Solvang. Thankfully we made it just before the sun went down. In contrast, the drive back home took Robin 4 hours 20 minutes and Pismo Beach is 50 miles further north than Solvang.
We had a nice dinner in Solvang on Friday night and a great day touring through the town in the morning. If you have not been to
Solvang or
Denmark go. The people were friendly, the Danishes were excellent, the sun was shining beautifully and the Beer Garden was just right. We had borrowed a polarizer for our camera for the trip (thank you Patels) and the pictures proved its worth. Now I need to go buy a couple for my lenses. I recently took a photography class and I would describe it as "somewhat" helpful. I still have a long way to go. (Thankfully though, we just recently got our camera sensor cleaned.) Regardless, check out the colors thanks to the polarizer!

Evan and Danish Flowers in Solvang
We Told You it was Solvang
Ahhh – A Big Cold One at the Beer Garden
Good Ol' Hans
On Saturday afternoon, we drove up to the Cliffs Resort in Shell Beach, just north of Pismo Beach off Highway 1. The resort was excellent. The "partial ocean view" from our room was nice. I got a good picture of the sunset the first night.
Sunset from our Hotel Balcony in Pismo Beach
Our room was very nice, but nothing could top all the wonderful food we had. Our first night, we had dinner at the Cracked Crab. According to Robin, this was the best meal of the trip. The basic premise of the place is super fresh shellfish boiled up and then dumped on your table. We were given about 6 different implements in order to bust up the crab and lobster. My personal favorite was my wooden hammer - which makes a pretty loud sound if you smash it on the table. We had two types of crab - Dungeness and Bairdi - and some lobster. The Bairdi crab was exceptional.
Cracked Crab (Lobster too) - Yummy!
They Make You Wear Silly Bibs – Felt Like Home!
Sunday we slept in and then went into Pismo for breakfast at a world famous cinnamon roll place, the name of which I cannot remember. But the cinnamon rolls were pretty good. We ordered three cinnamon rolls – under the theory that ordering four would certainly yield a funny look from the server. Robin was pretty much done after her first, which left me to finish off the other two (two plus two is four). I gladly accepted the challenge. Fortunately we skipped lunch. After cinnamon rolls, we headed over to an art fair at the Dinosaur Caves Park between Shell Beach and Pismo Beach. They had fifty or sixty different artisans’ works and we walked up and down the rows and rows of tents. After we tired of art, we headed over to the bluffs over the ocean. Robin sat down and patiently waited for me to take about 100 pictures of the ocean and the hundreds of birds prancing around giant igneous rocks jutting out of the water. Most of my pictures sucked, but under the law of averages, I did get a few good ones. My favorite is of Robin though.
The Art Faire at the Dinosaur Caves Park in Shell Beach

There Was a Lot of Bird Poop on this Rock
Birds in Flight
Robin in Relaxation Mode
Sunday evening I tried to take some pictures of the two of us off our balcony at the hotel. We got one keeper.
Us on the Balcony
That night we had a great dinner at Steamers of Pismo. It was the nicest restaurant and had a grand view of the Pismo Beach Pier (more on that later). My favorite was the 22oz Stella Artois I had and Robin's was the Seafood Fondue. We capped the night off by going to see A Mighty Heart with Angelina Jolie in the role of Marianne Pearl. The movie is good (particularly the portrayal of Pakistan's efforts to catch Daniel Pearl's abductors), but the scene where she finds out about Daniel Pearl’s murder will stay with you. It was worth it just for that.
Monday we kayaked up in the Morro Bay estuary. Robin and I went in a double kayak - our second joint kayak experience - the first being at Carl and Cheryl Alberola's wedding in Maui six years ago. The water was calm; we saw tons of birds (Brown Pelicans, Blue Herons, Seagulls, etc.), a few Harbor Seals, beautiful sand dunes, the massive Morro Rock, and a LOT of seaweed. Robin also found some wonderfully colored sand dollars - including GREEN - which we'll probably make into a shadow box at some point. There were two gals on the tour with us. While my photography has a long way to go, the picture that one of the two gals took of Robin and I in front of Morro Rock shows that they have a lot further to go than I do.
The Marina in Morro Bay before Kayaking (Thank You Polarizer for Tese Colors)
Morro Bay is a Bird Estuary - SEE!
This Crane Appears to be Walking on Water when in Fact, There is a Mud Flat Just Beneath the Surface
Robin and Morro Rock
A Green Sand Dollar (Who Do You Think That is for? :)
I Got Carried Away with Pictures of the Seagull
Robin and I (a little blurry - due to operator error) and Morro Rock
Monday night we had dinner at the world famous Splash Cafe in Pismo. The chowder was amazing. Robin got us a crab and shrimp topper - just put right on top of the chowder - and that made it even better. The gamesmanship involved in getting a table at this place should not go un-commented upon. After we ordered, Robin took charge of the filling up our soda cups and I tried to jockey for position. I found an open table just fine, but I could not pry a stool loose from anyone. On my seventh attempt at asking someone if they were using that stool, I got a reprieve. However, in order to get the seat over to the table, I had to go under another table. This did not seem to faze anyone in the place. But like I said, the chowder was exceptional.
After enjoying our chowder, we headed out to the Pismo Beach Pier. We watched surfers eek out every last moment of daylight searching for a passable wave. The surf was not great. We did catch a few glimpses of good form. And we were relaxing. As the sun was nearly gone, we headed down to the very end of the Pier. As we approached, a group of boys in their late teens/ early twenties were dancing all around one guy with a partial mohawk who appeared to be reeling in a significant catch. A crowd gathered around as he fought the creature. As the battle neared an end, several of his buddies dropped grappling hooks over the edge of the Pier and brought up a 50 pound Bat Ray. It took almost 4 minutes for the guys to get all of the hooks out of the ray and for enough pictures to be taken. They dropped it over the edge and it looked like it swam away all alive – catch and release in action.
Tuesday morning we headed over to Avila Beach. We toured through the cutest little town and had a wonderful lunch at the Custom House. The sugar packets at the restaurant, from a company called Sugar for the Soul, have these interesting quotes from Author Noah benShea on them. Our two favorites were: "Do not kiss your children so they will kiss you back but so they will kiss their children, and their children's children" and "Parenting is a journey from management to consultant, if you're lucky." We will be back to Avila Beach with the boys. The stretch of beach is super family friendly and the town is just the right size for the family to hang out for a few days.
The Avila Beach Pier
We then headed up to Hearst Castle in San Simeon, about a 50 minute drive north. William Randolph Hearst (newspaper and media magnate of the 1920’s to 1950’s) built a palace on a hill overlooking the Pacific. We had previously done the main tour, so we opted for the "Garden" Tour - which is really a tour of all the buildings except for the main house. The place is a palace. I've always enjoyed European palace tours, so this was no different for me. I took a bunch of pictures and a few turned out all right.
The Columns Overlooking Willy's (the Neptune) Pool at Hearst Castle
Cupid and the Ocean
Evan and the Ocean (Who's Cuter - Wait, Don't Answer That!)
Willy's House (Our Favorite)
Willy had a Nice View
Tuesday evening we had sushi in San Luis Obispo and caught the new chick flick, Evening. As usual, I liked the movie more than Robin did. But I am a sucker for emotional films.
For our holiday drive, Robin and I did Pismo Beach to San Diego on the 4th. It was much, much easier than the Susanville to San Diego drive on Memorial Day with both boys. We arrived home just in time for a little BBQ and fireworks. A fantastic 4th of July with the family!
Grampster and Noah Playing with Fire(works)

Noah Excited About his Sparkler
Andrew, the Pyromaniac/Fire Chief
Nana and her Boys
Many thanks to Mom & Dad (& Karin who came down for the weekend) for watching the boys to give us this special time. I understand that they had some adventures of their own…as it should be. We missed the boys and they missed us…as it should be. We got back to Insanity (aka Normal Life) pretty quickly. But we will always have our memories of the Central Coast of Relaxation.